Today i have some tips for long distance relationships. Before start I wanna share with you why I wanted to write this on this post.
Almost 1 year ago I met a guy in Madrid, at first we thought it wouldn't last more than one night (he lives in Italy, I live in Spain and the idea of something more wasn't in our head) until we started talking daily and we realized that we could not spend one day without each other. Then we talk about the big question Can we survive a long distance relationship ?.
I've never thought stuff like this could happen but Karma gave me across the forehead. And here we are, giving advice (from my perspective) on how to survive and take the best that you can.
1- Talk every day with him / her. A relationship like this requires constant communication. Being far makes everything more complicated.
2-Try to understand that he/she is a human being ,and it may be mistakes: (Warning! for me a Kiss it's not the same as sleep with other person...it depends of your personality and if you really know that only happens once)
3- Do not exaggerate. If I have learned something is the Internet makes everything worse twice and if he doesn't answer a text or call it's because he's busy - (And no, he's not talking to other person).
4-ENJOY your time. I have the luck to have two friends who deserve heaven, they are leaving me aside every time my boyfriend is in town. In those days, you have to forget everything and focus on that person and create your own world.
5- Don't listen to people who try to ruin you. People like that are everywhere and you have to avoid them at all costs. Is your happiness ,not theirs.
6-Show him you care with small details: Text him every morning before he does, go to the airport / station every time he's in town, discover secret places in your city ....
P.s: This is the first time I write a post in English,and I know there's mistakes but pleeeeeease be nice :D
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