Do you ever feel...?

Do you ever feel like every single person you know is trying to control your life?
From how to dress to how to talk
From what to do to what you should think.

I feel that.

I feel like i'm not good enough, I feel extremly anxious when I make something I shouldn't because that's not what other people told me to do it.
I feel like i'm owing something to them when it's not that way
 I try to be the "perfect" everything: perfect girlfriend, perfect daughter,perfect cousin,perfect niece...
And they don't see that.

They only see the other part. The part when i'm so tired that I can't handle that level of perfection,
when I start to think about myself and I start to cry because I want to someone to hear me, to tell me that I shouldn't feel like I dissapoint everyone, because I'm not!

Where's the fucking line between give an advise and tell anyone how to live their lives?